L.O.V.E

I just can say he treat me very good...Do you know that what a girls want in their life?

1) caring- he give me care that i really feel it in my heart..
2) love- he give me his love that i feel that is true in my heart..
3) confident- he give me a confidence that he love me more than i do..
4) promise- he give me a promise that somebody never give me...
5) loyalty- he loyal to me every second and minute that i can feel it is true...
6) safe- he make me feel safe wherever i beside him..
7) tight- he hold me tight beside him in order to avoid other people come to hurt me..
8) protect- he try to protect me as much as he can in his life..
9) respect- he respect me and he will not force me to do something i not willing to do..
10) understanding- he understand that we need to cross all the obstacle in our life in order to go along this relationship..he never complaint it, he want to solve all the problem with me in life..

He try to know what i love and what i do not like in my life..
He willing to treat me like a princess in his heart that give me whatever i love..

I love the way you treat me, Baby...
I promise myself that i want to treat you good in my life..

My 2010

My year 2010 can consider is a bad year for me.

I felt disappointed about someone. I'm totally disappointed. There is nothing to say who correct or wrong. Love is blind. Love is Fair. When you end up one relationship, no wrong or correct. Just has the process and ending. I should thanks him because he let me know i should not wasting time on him again. But then i'm not that kind of girls crying whole day because of the break up. 

From the day we decide to leave, i already forget what is taste of love. We ever had a sweet time, but i feel tired sometime. I start to live alone without him, he was already pass in my life. But we still can be friends or buddy. This is the right time for me to appreciate others instead of him. 

That is my principle: never appreciate someone do not know how to appreciate you, do not cry because of someone not appreciate you, be happy and appreciate someone always be your side. 

I start to learn to be mature after every relationship. Mature, is only the thing u can gain from the break up. It is not the end of life, because there have other good choice to wait for you in the future. Do always appreciate who really treat you good in life especially parents. 

From the 2010, i start to plan for my career. I do not know which industry is suitable for me, but i just want to discover what is the job i'm interested. May be is sales and marketing. I plan to open my own business after 30 years old. I got my dream, I hope i can be a boss although i already marry in the future.

For the new 2011, i will focus on my final study and planning. I hope can get more new friends in this new year. I just let it be for love in my life, love will come itself without any signal. 

HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Wish all my friends all the best. 

The story of CIGARETTE.....

Everyone know that smoking is bad for health..But then why so many people still maintain this bad habit although government banned all the cigarette advertisement and increase the tax for the cigarette in the nation?

I don't really know about the cigarette because I am not a smoker. After I involve in cigarette industry, I only know about what is the CIGARETTE. I experience a lot of new things after I work as the Cigarette customer engager. Well, let me explain about my job…

Cigarette customer engager can say is a promoter of the cigarette. I need to promote my cigarette brand to customer in order to engage them to buy it. Of course, I still have my principal as I do not promote to those underage (<18 years old) and non-smoker. As we know that, cigarette and beer promoter job is high paid job in this market compare to those sampling promoter. But then, most of the people do not understand us.

Sometime I feel angry that why those people love to ask why I work as the cigarette customer engager..It is because they feel that our job is encouraging people to smoke. Well, actually I hope I can scold them but in the end I just answer them politely.

He:" Cigarette is bad for health. Why you want to work this job to encourage people smoke more?"

OR

She:" Sekarang kerajaan menjalankan kempen TAKNAK, kamu buat macam nak orang hisap banyak rokok.."  (Government already implements a campaign TAKNAK to discourage people smoke, but then you look like encourage people smoke more...)

How I want to answer with this kind of question? As a “Professional” promoter, I cannot scold or talk something rude to customer because customer is always right. So, I just can answer them as follow:

Me: "erm...sorry sir, we only promote to those smoker. For those non-smoker like YOU, we will not promote." then I smile and walk away..

OR

Me: " Kak, saya hanya kerja part time saja, kalau customer bukan perokok, saya tak akan promote kepada mereka" ( Sis, i only do my responsibility for my job. And I wont promote to those non-smoker)

So, did I doing something bad in this society? My job is not stealing or killing people to get money, I use my effort and time to earn money. Although is not a good job, it is one of the job can give me a high paid. Who will reject the high paid job except those do not love money or too much of money in their life.

For me, I love to explore in different industry. I used to involve in food industry as sampling promoter. I get the extra knowledge from my job. I knew the product range for some famous company. For example: Unilever company, product range in this company include: Dove, Rejoice, Walls, Rexona, Lifebouey and more. P&G Company is one of the famous companies to produce premium product such as SKII, Panteen, OLAY and many more. Maybe a lot of people already knew it earlier; it is a new knowledge for me after I work as promoter to promote the Unilever product. I knew the competitors (Nestle, P&G) product well.

Again, I am not a smoker, but I get a lot of knowledge about cigarette when I work as customer engager. I get the comment and new information from my customer. But then what I can say is different people different taste. Not every cigarette is suit for everyone. We cannot force someone to accept the new flavor for cigarette. Well, let me to share out some comment about the CIGARETTE.
(May be some already knew it, I just want to share what I know from my job)

1. In Malaysia, the top 1 for the cigarette is Dunhill. It is one of the cigarette do not need to hire promoter to promote the cigarette because it has a lot of loyal fan for Dunhill. 

Dunhill is one of the cigarettes under British American Tobacco (BAT), a famous and potential company in in UK. His "brother" and "sister" included Kent, Lucky Strike, Benson & Hedge and Pall Mall in Malaysia.

2. Do you know that Marlboro is the Top 1 cigarette in the world? Yes, absolutely....TOP 1 selling in the world BUT NOT in MALAYSIA!!! It is because BAT is the first company to come to Malaysia market the cigarette before Philip Morris International. 

Marlboro is one of the famous brands under Philip Morris International. It is the naked truth to say that Marlboro is the best selling cigarette outside Malaysia, such as UK and US. The brands under Philip Morris are Marlboro, L&M and Sempoerna (clove cigarette) in Malaysia. Not very people know that Sempoerna is an Indonesia cigarette and it become one of the clove cigarette brand under Philip Morris after 2008.

3.  Japan Tobacco International (JTI)  is Japanese company produce famous Menthol cigarette, Salem and other brand such as Winston, Camel and Mild Seven.

4. Pall Mall- is a brand under British American Tobacco (BAT) outside US nation such as Malaysia. But it is under R. J. Reynolds Tobacco Company (RJR) when selling in US market.

5. Although the tobacco company uses same tobacco to produce the cigarette, the taste for the cigarette is quite different between nations. Let me state one example, the taste for Marlboro cigarette is quite different in Malaysia and US. I got one customer told me that the taste of Marlboro cigarette so much different in Malaysia and Australia especially Marlboro touch.


6. The different of taste for the cigarette may relate to the manufacturing date. A lot of people do not realize that the freshness of cigarette is related to the how long the period between the current and manufacturing date. If it is above 3 or 4 month from the manufacturing date, the taste of cigarette may not be fresh and it taste not so nice. So, it is better to check the manufacture date under the cigarette box before you purchase it.

7. Some customer don like to buy cigarette in type of box. They prefer the soft pack. When I ask why, they will explain to me the taste for soft pack cigarette is different than the box cigarette. For those soft pack lover, they feel that soft pack cigarette taste nice than the box type cigarette. But then the soft pack cigarette already becomes less and less in market. The 14 stick cigarette for soft pack is already banned by government. Therefore, for those soft pack lover have to try to accept the box type cigarette.

 
8. Although government keep increasing the price for the cigarette in order to reduce the number of smoker, the price of cigarette in Malaysia is relatively cheaper compare to other countries such as Singapore.

Do you think it can reduce the number of smoker in Malaysia by increasing the price of cigarette in market? People will stop to smoke when the price increase tremendously? In my opinion, the effect of price will cause the smoker shift to buy illicit cigarette. The number of smoker will reduce but not in greater percentage.

By the way, smoking is bad for health. However, it is not a shame for girls to work as the cigarette promoter. People who will buy the cigarette not because the influence of cigarette promoter, but is about how do they think. If you have a strong mind to refuse to smoke, nobody can force you although it has the gorgeous girl to persuade you.  

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一则他的故事（真人真事）

 一则他的故事：

从小身在小康之家的他，虽然在完整的家庭，虽然身为在家最小的家庭成员，父母亲都疼爱他。他有个哥哥，但是自小他们的感情不是很好，哥哥的自闭让他很难去靠近。
父母的心大多放在哥哥的身上，在家哥哥比任何人还要像王，每个人都要去服侍他，哥哥说一，其他人大多数不说二，相比最小的他，一出生就要享有第二的待遇。
一天一天地长大，哥哥读学院了，他则读中学。感情还是一样冷淡，在同一间家里讲话的次数五指手指都数的到。父母亲买了一辆汽车给哥哥，而小的还是继续走路上学。哥哥是家里的长子，父母亲很辛苦的赚钱供他上学院。接近中五毕业的他，是时候选择要上学院和中六。妈妈告诉他，因为要让哥哥读最好的，所以叫他选择中六，因为爸爸供不起他去学院。他很明白，虽然曾经埋怨过，但埋怨不能改变结局。

上了中六的那年，他拼命读书，每个月和爸爸妈妈拿补习费和零用钱，妈妈总是很困难的从钱包掏出钱来。他知道他们很辛苦，辛苦的节俭让哥哥和他读书。最终，他在中六考上了全班第一名，全级第4 名。这时候的他刚考到车牌，但是他的命运不比哥哥好，因为父母告诉他，他们没能力买车给他，而家里的车太大辆也不能让他驾。只有哥哥的车，但是哥哥需要用到车去学院。从小，哥哥要的东西永远都是第一个拿到的，而他则永远用着哥哥不要的。

中六毕业后， 他就开始在外打工，为了就是不再和爸爸妈妈拿钱，用自己的双手赚钱。把那些赚回来的钱买自己要的东西，在那时候开始他告诉自己是时候开始独立了。

上了大学的那年， 他离开了家住进宿舍。和家人的关系也不那么好，虽然有时会回家，但是一个人还是躲进房间里做着自己的东西。有时，他会在想如果父母亲从小不是特别偏袒哥哥，可能一家人的关系不会那么疏远。有时他不想回家，因为家里缺乏了那些温暖。

有时他会在想父母亲很光荣因为他们的儿女都是大学生，但在他心里他们是失败的父母亲。很多时候，别人会羡慕着他家庭，虽然不是富有的家庭，只是小康之家，但是家家有本难念的经。现在的他长大了， 这些感觉从小到现在已经麻木了。 家，已经不是那个他想要的家了。

可能妈妈的管教方式有点偏激可以养出一个大学生，但是妈妈永远不知道在他心里永远只把他当着生他的妈妈，而不是什么都可以说出口的朋友。因为他要什么，妈妈都必须问过哥哥的意见。在妈妈的心里他永远都不够哥哥好，不够哥哥会的多。例如，连写英文妈妈都会觉得他不会。

他不讨厌妈妈，因为妈妈和爸爸有时也会疼他，虽然不比哥哥多。 他的成长并不是很完美，因为家里的因数，他碰到很多瓶颈。在感情上遇过很多创伤，在那伤痕累累的泪痕里，他成功的培养出自信和他认为他自己什么困难都可以克服。

眼看就快出社会工作，他告诉自己要努力向前，为的是要让爸爸妈妈过舒服的日子。哥哥的忙碌让他觉得需要好好孝顺爸爸妈妈。虽然在他们的心里，他的分量不比哥哥来的重要，他知道孝义在华人习俗里是不可忘记的。

Island of God: BALI

Bali island is located west of Java, Indonesia. It is a famous island in Asia Pacific with world class surfing and diving, unique cultural, beautiful seaside and enormous range of the accommodation. Bali island is an ideal vacation for honeymoon or back pack trip. It is one of the island won the international travel award in Asia. 

It is a very nice place to relax your mind. I love island because it is only the place can allow me to forget everything and enjoy my holiday maximally. What so special for BALI ISLAND???

 Sunset-  You can spend time on black and white beach to get a relax.

 Body Massage and Spa-You definitely cannot miss out to try the traditional body spa when you come to Bali Island. It is a good idea to have a body massage and spa to relax yourself.

 Since Bali Island known as the world class surfing and diving center, you definitely cannot miss to join this activities. Bali is an ideal place for scuba diving and snorkeling.

 accommodation: It is depending on your financial status whether you choose to live in high class villa or budget hotel. No matter where you live in, the most important is comfortable. I love to live in villa where I can enjoy the beautiful view after wake up or else I can straight jump into the swimming pool when open the balcony door. ^.^

 Majority of the local people are adherence to Balinese Hinduism, formed as a combination of existing local belief Hindu influence from mainland Southeast Asia and South Asia. Therefore, there has several Hindu temple .One of the popular temple worth to visit is Seven Seaside Temples.

Balinese and Indonesian are a widely spoken language in Bali. As the Bali Island become a famous Island in the world, English is become a third language to communicate in Bali. Moreover, English become a primary foreign language which widely spoken between the business people and tourist. 

Nightlife in Bali- The life in Bali become totally different during the night time. You can experience the nightlife in Bali especially at Sanur and Kuta. It has a lot of karaoke, bars, clubs, nightclubs and discos let you to discover it in the island at night.

爱的忠告。。

爱是从一个微笑开始，

爱上一个不爱你的人是痛苦的，

爱上一个人却没勇气让他知道更是痛苦。 

也许是上天的安排，

让你在遇到你的真命天子之前，

遇到了几个有缘无份的人，

这让我们去学会了珍惜者迟来的礼物。

当一切的浪漫，冲动和激情消失，

而你却还对那个他保持关心和牵挂，

那就是爱。

在生命中，

最悲伤的事莫过于放弃自己所爱的人，

看着他远离但你却无动于衷，

让他离去，

因为他再也给不到你要的幸福。

 

在付出爱时，

谁也不确定会得到回报，

不要去期待得到他的爱，

应该去等待让你的爱慢慢在他心中发芽。

如果你的心还没安定，

那请你永远不要说要放弃。

爱是属于那些灰心失望却继续等待的人，

爱是属于那些曾被出卖欺骗却坚坚信美好的人，

爱是属于那些已经伤痕累累却渴望爱的人。

和一个人反目只须一分钟，

和一个人相爱却要以小时，

要忘记一个人却要花一辈子的时间。

一句无心的话会引起一场争斗，
一句残酷的话会毁坏一个人的生活，
一句及时的话会平复一场波浪，
一句充满爱心的话会治愈别人的伤口。 

爱的真谛，

是让你爱的人做回他自己，

而不是成为你理想的人。

领悟。。。

在那一瞬间，

有种不好的感觉，

在这社会里，

我仿佛看到了很多人的另一面，

这让我领会到：

成绩好的人不就应该帮成绩差的人吗？

富有的人不就应该体谅那些拼命在外打工的人吗？

有父母疼爱的人不就应该更明白孤儿想要被人疼爱的感受吗？

事实上，

成绩好的人永远都不会明白成绩差的人，

因为他们觉得他们比任何人聪明，

但是他们永远不会知道成绩差的人也会有出人头地的一天。

一出生就享有富有的人永远不会明白那些穷人的感受，

因为他们不曾像那些人顶着热晒雨淋辛苦的赚钱，

他们永远不会明白钱对那些不富有的人来说是多么辛苦得到的。

那些身在福中不知福的人永远不会明白那些孤儿的感受，

他们不会知道那些孤儿渴望被人疼爱的感受，

他们不会知道生长在一个没有双亲陪伴的日子有多么的寂寞。